Closeness is more than miles

Being apart doesn’t just mean missing someone. It can mean carrying questions that never settle — Can I really trust them? Are we strong enough to last? Am I asking too much, or not enough?

Long-distance doesn’t have to mean emotionally distant. With the right clarity, it can become a period that grows trust, resilience, and truth between you.

Why long-distance coaching matters

Distance magnifies what’s already there. The small doubts, the unspoken frustrations, the different ways you each deal with stress or loneliness — all of it gets amplified when you can’t read each other’s body language or reach out for a reassuring touch.

That’s why coaching for long-distance couples isn’t just about “staying connected.” It’s about understanding yourselves and each other deeply enough that distance doesn’t dictate the relationship.

How I work with LDR couples

I often begin with individual sessions so each of you can see clearly what you bring into the relationship — your patterns, expectations, fears, and needs. That clarity lowers defensiveness when we come together for joint sessions.

All sessions are online. Ninety minutes is the minimum, two hours is often ideal, and if we’re in the middle of something crucial we don’t stop because the clock says so. Sometimes we go three, four, or even six hours if that’s what the situation calls for.

I don’t use scripts or surface-level fixes. Instead, we focus on what’s really driving your dynamic so you can rebuild trust and emotional safety in real time.

What changes for you

You stop looping on the same text fights or late-night call arguments.
Trust starts to rebuild not through promises, but through honesty and follow-through.
You both know where this relationship truly stands: whether it can grow across distance, or whether it’s time for a different choice. That clarity brings peace, even in hard decisions.

Is this right for you?

This work is a good fit if you and your partner:

• Live in different cities or countries, whether temporarily or long-term
• Feel disconnected or anxious between visits
• Struggle with jealousy, insecurity, or uncertainty about the future
• Want to know if your relationship is strong enough to last — and what needs to shift if it is

If you’re navigating these questions, couples coaching may be the right place to start. For urgent clarity, you may prefer a deep-dive intensive.

Practical details

• Format: Online (video sessions). Works across all time zones.
• Length: 90–120 minutes; longer intensives available when needed.
• Rate: USD 120/hr
• No free “discovery calls” — we start the real work right away.

Ready to begin?

Long-distance doesn’t have to mean living in doubt. With the right support, this season apart can become a time of honesty, clarity, and deeper trust.

Even though this page focuses on long-distance relationships, the same principles apply if you’re living together and struggling with patterns up close — in that case, couples coaching may be a better fit. And if you’re the only one ready to start, individual coaching can bring clarity that shifts the whole dynamic. When the questions feel too big for a standard session, you can always step into a deep-dive intensive for the space to reach real clarity.